What did you say?

maf // aka makeoutsensi - 2004-10-26 16:04:09
ok. so my first question is...is this someone that you like and want in your life for a while - or do you just feel like making out - cause those two things are approached very differently - but as i have painfully discovered - the italian men have PAINFUL stubble ... so make them shave either way ... and get back to me so i can know how to procede.
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Stacey - 2004-10-26 16:06:22
Also, just for both of your entertainment value, I updated. http://soonthebandwagon.blogspot.com/
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Incredipete - 2004-10-26 16:08:09
If you make out, he will expect for future escalation. Just soes you know.
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maf // aka makeoutsensi - 2004-10-26 16:14:13
thank you pete - this is my point.
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Wendy - 2004-10-26 16:18:34
maf: I think this is definitely someone that I like and would want in my life for a while. This is why I do enjoy the time we spend together even though we are not making out. Making out would be a plus.

Is that your expert opinion, Pete?

Stacy I am coming right at ya!
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maf // aka makeoutsensi - 2004-10-26 16:22:59
ok. then you have to approach this one carefully - i think the casual makeout could kill the relationship/friendship. can you ask him out on a "date" ... even if it's just dinner and a movie at your house ... then you could set the scene so to speak ... lighting and all that jazz - and i'm thinking a cocktail of some sort wouldn't hurt.... but know that if he doesn't feel the same way - could screw up a good thing ... so if you just wanna make out with someone - we'll have to go to plan b...i did the make out thing last night - but we've been out 2x's and he was just too polite/shy to go in .. so i had to take the lead
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Wendy - 2004-10-26 18:01:04
I agree. I think a nice "adult" dinner out with maybe Brian and Jackie then back to my house for said cocktail would be good. That way there is not too much pressure. Maybe that will give me a better feel of what he is thinking because I for damn sure don't want to ass up the friendship.
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Incredipete - 2004-10-26 22:52:44
FYI - I am once again broadcasting live and public.
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Andy - 2004-10-27 08:51:31
Justt surprise the give a the him a kiss a what ever moment you are with him (either at his place or yours). if he freaks...just laugh it off as some crazy impulsive thing.
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HRT - 2004-10-27 11:42:37
Dude(Andy), you don't get out much do you?

In my experience most guys would make out with most cute girls, if it was clear that the "making out" was on the table. Most of us guys don't go to the "make out" place because we just didn't know that it was on the table. Kind of like the story about Bill Clinton and Billy Graham

Billy Graham was seated next to former President Bill Clinton on a recent commercial flight.

Once the plane was airborne, the flight attendant came around for drink orders. Mr. Clinton asked for a whiskey and soda. The flight attendant then asked the Reverend if he, too, would like a drink.

Mr. Graham replied, "I'd rather be savagely raped by a brazen Cuban whore, than let liquor touch these lips."

The former President then quitely handed his drink back to the flight attendant and said, "I'm sorry, darlin', I didn't realize there was a choice. I think I'll have the same thing he's having!"

Guys just need to know what is and is NOT on the menu.
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