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Incredipete - 2004-10-21 18:08:06
Fat peeps ROCK. ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-21 21:04:02 "I think it is pretty sad that there are people like you (with your holier than thou attitutde)who will not even take the time to even try to give people a chance and see past it." ... wendy - i'm thrilled he came clean with who he really is - so i know not to spend anymore precious time dealing with him .. and i have more time to comment on your kickin' site! ------------------------------- sassykk - 2004-10-21 21:51:34 Screwed up at what core? I am not overweight, TODAY, I have been, in my life, what some might consider "FAT", I'll be bold and honest here... I am 5'9" and I weigh 158 lbs, I carry it well (the FAT that I have now). At one point I weighed 211 lbs. I did Not Carry that "Well", but ya know what?????? I am the exact same person, inside and OUT today as I was when I was heavier. The real truth be told, I was a more sincere and honest person in a shit load tons of ways when I was heavier.... WHY??? Because I was all about being ME and not the "more visually appealing by the standards of others 'ME'". I'm going to lay this shit on the line... I was more myself, more honest, more carefree and REAL when I was heavier. Now, don't get me wrong, I FEEL beter as a smaller person (health-wise), BUT, I am so self consumed sometimes by how I "look" that I loose sight of who I REALLY am. I am not a size, I am not a cute ass in those jeans, I am not going to eat another salad for dinner if you fucking pay me. I am a woman, with a mind, and opinions, that can't spell and I love to eat. It's a catch 22 that I would rather ditch for the fucking fudge brownie. Just sayin' ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-21 21:58:16 Question: Is everybody locked out of Pete's diary or is it just me? ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-21 22:04:24 That's what I'm talking about sassy. We shouldn't have to make apologies to anyone about who we are. maf, you know the welcome mat is always out for ya sister. Party day every day... ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:08:33 It's everybody. I got 68 death threats from people I've never heard of nor met today, and it's the last time. The plug has been pulled. Thanks for giving me the benefit of the doubt, gang. My several close overweight friends will be shocked to learn that I hate them. ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:11:05 And I'm still right. It's better to be thinner. My doctor said so, and hell, he's a doctor. (Note that I didn't say "a better person" which I'm sure is what all of you assume that I mean.) ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:19:34 AND, you will note that the comment "screwed up at the core" was a reference to what "many people will assume." Hmmm. sounds like I was speaking in the hypothetical, doesn't it... ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-21 22:27:49 I think, no I know, you said "many people, not just me, make the same correlation I do." Not just me, that means you doesn't it? Just askin'... ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:31:19 And what was that correlation I was talking about? It looks like you pasted the end of one paragraph with the start of the next one... I'm just saying... ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-21 22:38:04 Well, Pete it seems like alot of people see what you wrote the same way. And we are all smart people, we understand what we read. I'M just sayin'.... ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:40:43 Apparently they didn't understand what they read. Partly my fault for not being clear. But I would think after all this time, people would give me a little bit of rope before they tightened the noose. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-21 22:50:40 Is that like.... an apology? ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-21 22:58:19 You could call it an apology for not being clear. Certainly not an apology for my intentions. I know what I meant, and I won't apologize for that. ------------------------------- Kathy - 2004-10-22 01:45:32 Ah, controversy! I don't remember everything that you, Pete, posted -- but I do recall at the very beginning some comment that what you were about to post would not be very popular, but you were going to go ahead and say it anyway (or some words roughly to that effect.) It appears that the reaction was more adverse than you anticipated! ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-22 05:31:07 Sometimes the truth hurts. ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 07:04:19 hurts who pete? ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 07:58:00 cause from where i am ... no pain here... wendy..any pain?? ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 08:15:26 Let's see, ummm, nope. The more I think about it, the only pain I feel is the pain in my ass that is Pete. You see, he thinks he is justified because he "thinks" he is right. I just want to know who the hell appointed Pete to be the conveyor of all truths. Sad thing is, he will never get it. ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 08:31:07 but the good thing is you/we know that now. i understand what he's maybe thinking in his head that he's saying - but at this point he seems to be so concerned with being "right" that he's drawn himself into a corner. sounds like his truth hurts ... not THE truth ... and oh yeah - i flashed the office today -on purpose .. so yay me. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 08:54:42 Some people cannot find it in them to admit when they are wrong and they end up alienating themselves from good, smart and even sometimes fat people. These are the same people who find themselves terribly lonely at the end of the day. Friday flashing! It doesn't get any better than that. ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 09:20:05 Pete--Just wanted to let you know--when you were selfish and closed your page it fucked up the banner on my page. That is why I took all of your shit down---because you had to have a password to get onto my page or the banner wouldn't show up. Of course, eventually I will be able to fix THAT. ------------------------------- Stacey - 2004-10-22 11:05:45 A couple things, not that they're needed at this point, but here they are anyway: -- Death threats? EFFING STOP IT. Pete typed some rude words, he's NOT a child molester. Please, people, I'm the fattest one here and I'm not even angry. -- Pete, you came off like a superior son of a bitch, even though you didn't mean to. I'm sorry you won't be playing anymore. -- Everyone with an opinion has the perfect right to express it. Popular or not. That includes those of us who thought Pete came off like a complete and total asshat. -- Good luck ever being "right" in our postmodern society. -- Allie, you are my flashing hero. ------------------------------- HRT - 2004-10-22 12:00:02 The possibility, however remote it may be, is that I love Stacey even more than I love Allie. And not just because her boobs are bigger either. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 12:37:26 And what does that have to do with my entry, huh? Have you ever had the shit squeezed out of both arms like six times in one sitting? Give a sister some pity wouldja.. ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 13:08:18 this is the face of a heartbroken woman. now ilove stacey more than i love allie - but damn todd. are you trying to kill me. and her boobs are NOT bigger than mine - just tanner. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 13:11:07 Shall I get my mom to send over dinner for you? ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 13:16:09 please. wow - broken hearted... :( ------------------------------- HRT - 2004-10-22 13:26:03 Oh well then in that case, nevermind, my love for you (Allie) is immutable.
Still I love me some Stacey, just not the same way I love me some Allie. ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 14:48:06 I agree with Wendy. I didn't care for the things Pete said but the main reason I got angry is because he took whatever he was feeling out on my page by messing it up. Why would you do this to someone just because they don't agree with you. ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-22 15:00:09 Interestingly, some of the rudest comments were from none other than Brian, who almost never comments on my page except to drop nasty insults. As to the lockage of my diary... I had no idea it would mess up anyone else's diary. And everyone was freaking pissed long before I did the lockout. And yes, Wendy's comments were mild in comparison to many others, I will grant her that. That is all. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 15:06:01 But people are allowed to be pissed, Pete. You can�t have your butt kissed all the time, what would be the fun in that. So, how was the trip? ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 15:09:47 I seem to remember Brian calling you narrow minded. I also recall that he backed up his statement. Though I guess we won't know for sure because when you got called out and couldn't think of how to respond you closed down. --As to the lockage of your diary...I don't think you gave a fuck how it would affect other people you just wanted to be pissy and make a statement. You can't stay off diaryland you're already back today--your site will be back up within two weeks---quit cryin. ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-22 15:10:21 No one has to kiss my butt. But intelligent debate is much preferred over being called an "ass" et al. The trip was, well... to the deep south. What a bunch of bigots! good lord. You'd get your mouth washed out with soap in Kansas if you talked like those people. ------------------------------- Incredipete - 2004-10-22 15:12:08 It was all "don't talk to them n____'s." and "we try to keep them n_____'s in line down here." GEEZ ------------------------------- maf - 2004-10-22 15:12:31 i didn't know i was a bigot. good to know...you can't get much deeper south than me. i LOVE the smell of a broad sweeping generalization in the morning. ------------------------------- Brian - 2004-10-22 15:16:58 I wouldn't call my comments the rudest if you got 68 death threats. Don't open a door and expct me not to walk through it... If you have a "nodding sycophants only" policy, I'll stay clear of your diary in the future... ------------------------------- Walker - 2004-10-22 15:25:05 I have tried all day to stay quiet, to not open my mouth and say something that I'll regret. And I think that I've finally come to a point where anything I say will not be regretted. That being said, anyone who gets angry, or mad, to the point of calling someone names, or belittling them, over something that was said in their diary, has issues of their own. UNLESS the person specifically called you out, by name, you have no way of knowing that they were speaking directly to or about you, rather than to the group, or groups as a whole. It's one thing to attack an idea, an opinion, and back it up with your own in a debate. It's completely different to attack a person because of their view. It's aboslutely in no way different than attacking someone for their religious belief or for how they feel about abortion or any other current event or issue. Kind of makes me wonder why I'm even a part of this community of online people as a whole. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 15:39:28 See, Pete just keeps getting mad instead of trying to resolve it. ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 15:43:27 Yes--ignore all of the valid points I made Pete and just concentrate on one line. And Fucking DUH-- you are out--you closed down your site. You did close down your site right--I mean you said you did because of the 68 DEATH THREATS. But don't bother responding to this we know you can't. ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 15:44:54 Oh and P.s. you neve once said you were the least bit sorry for fucking up my site. ------------------------------- Wendy - 2004-10-22 15:47:37 Come back, Allie. You know I have super mad love for you!!! ------------------------------- Jackie - 2004-10-22 15:47:44 Let's talk about Pete's comment "Feel free to keep talking about me on here, though, because it's entertaining" ya--your such a hire being--all of the ignorant moron jesters here will entertain you. You think you are better than everyone else especially women and fat people and if no one believes me--go read Pete's site--OH WAIT. ------------------------------- Walker - 2004-10-22 15:49:29 Jackie, I'd defend anyone who was being treated badly, who I considered a friend. Even if it were another friend they were being treated badly by. And it's not just defending Pete, it's defending the right to say what you want without having to worry about being cussed out for it. Wendy, you didn't specify that you were talking to me, but I'm going to take it that you were. If that's the case, I am one of the �overweight/obese people�, to put it out there I'm 5'7" and weigh roughly 220lbs. I'm not exactly tiney. But I didn't take offense to anything that was said in the entry. Every one keeps saying "broad sweeping generalization", and that's exactly what it was. It was a person's OBSERVATIONS. So why be upset about it? Maybe that's just it. Maybe I just don't understand what all the fuss is about. Maybe, just maybe, I'm the less intelligent one and that's why I'm not so upset about it. I'll also admit I was wrong. I don't regret saying what I have. I am however ashamed that I let myself get into this kind of discussion. Okay, fill this crap in first: |